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August 29, 2007
Don't like Anal? Read This!
There are alot of guys out there that are into anal sex, and I have found there are alot of ladies too that love to have anal sex, the problem comes when a guy loves it and the lady doesn't that is when you need to go easy and slow and show her how pleasureable it can be for the woman too!
So guys, if you have a woman that just doesn't care for anal sex, then my advice is to research and study up so that you are total prepared for that no, and then teach her what you found out and see if she isn't just a little more willing to try it out again.
Hardcore anal sex can be very enjoyable for both parties, but there are some rules you have to make sure you agree on before you decide to get into it. First, stop means stop, don't force yourself on your partner, the anus is a very sensative organ and can rip and tear very easily, if your partner isn't ready you can really hurt them.
Second, ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS use protection! Because the anus is such a delicate organ any rip or tear can of course transfer blood to your partner and we all know how HIV is transmitted, so please use your head, you can still enjoy yourself, just use protection!
Third, your partner needs to be relaxed to enjoy him or herself, so don't just jump into anal, make sure relaxation and lots of lube are used when having anal sex.
Last, but not least, NEVER force your partner to have anal sex. Now I know there are alot of you out there that say you would never do that, but there are some of you that have talked or are trying to talk your partner into it. Anal sex is something that has to be worked into slowly, and if your partner isn't willing, they will never be relaxed, which means that the possibility of seriously hurting them really increases.
I have had anal sex a few times with clients, just one of them was a little too rough and I was sore for quite awhile after. Lucky for him (he was married) and me, I made him wear protection so we were safe, because yes, I did tear and yes there was blood. He didn't even seem to care or think about it, I am sure he didn't care about me, but what about transmitting something to his wife?
Sometimes this job isn't just all about sex, but more about educating people, although some people will just never learn.
Lindsey
XXOO
Posted by lindsey at August 29, 2007 01:03 PM