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December 13, 2005

Talk Dirty to me

Women aren't like men when it comes to sex, well I shouldn't say all women but most women. Usually it takes awhile for women to become aroused, unlike men who can most times just think of sex and become aroused. Also unlike men, most women like soft porn with a storyline, while most men like the action porn. There are alot of guys who will ask a woman to 'talk dirty to me'.
Sometimes it's hard for a woman to talk dirty, she doesn't know exactly what to say or how to say it, or it's difficult for her or embarassing for her to say certain words. That's when you guys have to help her, you have to make her feel comfortable with how and what she says, let her know that it's ok to talk dirty and that you enjoy it and it turns you on.
If she needs time, let her have it, ask her to practice by herself, or read up on talking dirty, talk to friends or anyone she is comfortable with. Talking dirty can make a woman feel dirty, like she is slutty or less than, and you need to let her know that it's not like that at all, it's just a huge turnon for you and sometimes it helps you get going.
I had a guy who loved it when I talked dirty to him, and the best part of it was that he would get off alot faster when I talked dirty to him. That was fine with me of course because the faster he got off the quicker he was gone.
So guys, give the girls a chance, maybe help them out a little by talking to them while your having sex, telling them how good they are doing and what you like about what they are doing. For example,'oh ya baby, I love it when you suck my cock like that'. Start small and then work you way up, it might take awhile but it will be worth it!

Lindsey

Posted by lindsey at December 13, 2005 3:11 PM